Your subconscious is your memory bank and computer and has records that go back to the beginning of time stored within it. Even if you don’t consciously remember, your subconscious does.
When you meet someone, your subconscious recalls how you have known them in the past. You may not realize that in another life, they harmed you in some way. You just know you feel uncomfortable around them.
If, for example, you reach out to someone but you hurt them or their feelings in another life. They will be less likely to trust you now. You, however, are interested in establishing some kind of relationship with them. Maybe you want them as a referral source, to gain access to their company, win them over as a client, want a friendship, or to date them, or are just want to explore possibilities with them, but they have a funny, odd or uncomfortable feeling about you.
You put forth all the right effort and get nothing in return from your extending yourself to them and can’t figure out why. You’re doing all the right things so you should be getting better results from your efforts. You are frustrated. You judge them. You question your efforts. But it could be nothing of the sort.
So often we rely on just the conscious mind and the efforts they support to determine results but that provides such a limited perspective.
In my practice as a spiritual healer, using my abilities to recall past lives, I see countless scenarios where someone’s past relationship with someone has colored their experience of them now. As I clear those memories or negative attachments, I see their experiences with those people shift.
Just last week, I attended an event and sat next to a woman who asked me a question in a tone that clued me in that we must have had a negative past connection. I tuned in and saw that we had several prior relationships. The first I saw us fencing as sparring partners. The other was a more hostile connection.
Fortunately, with my ability to clear the attachments to these memories with the spiritual process I use, once the past connection is severed and cut we are able to see each other as we are now instead of from the past. Our subconscious will have the ability to see each other as we are now – hopefully good people who have the best intentions.
When those memories are cleared, we have a real opportunity for them to get to know us as we are and sell to them without these prior memories sabotaging our efforts.
If, however, your subconscious views others or they view you as a threat, there is unlikely going to be an ease in relating or doing business with each other.
When you clear those negative memories and connections between you and others in advance of meeting in social, networking or sales meetings, the events and relationships flow easier. The results are better than they would have been had they not been cleared prior. If, however, you experience less than desirable results, you can clear what has occurred and improve the outcome for the next encounter.