We don’t always understand when someone dies young why that had to be. Hopefully, this story may help shed some light on a perspective that may never have been considered. It’s certainly a dynamic that would have never occurred to me.
On Father’ Day, June 19, 2016, my late father, who passed in 2006, had a message to convey to me. We connect periodically and often on anniversaries and occasions such as this. He shared with me certain personal information so I left most of that out of this post as it was largely relevant to my life only. However, I left one paragraph here as it may telling of other heavenly dynamics that may serve the larger picture and more applicable to all although addressed to me specifically.
I found the story that follows interesting as well as a teaching point especially to anyone who has suffered loss of a loved one.
I was told by a colleague years ago that my father had reincarnated and was living in California. I had wondered about that lifetime recently and apparently he knew I questioned it. He, therefore, mentioned it here along with a valuable teaching for anyone but especially anyone who has lost a child.
We don’t always know the purpose of one’s life or the timing of their death. This dynamic was certainly one I have never considered. Hopefully, it will give you a broader sense of purpose, life and death from my sharing it.
My Father’s Message:
Trust that I watch over you in a way that does not allow me to come forth to you as I have in the past. That will change and at some point and you will see me again. In the interim, I have duties to perform in ways that I cannot explain as you cannot comprehend at this time. Just trust that they are supporting your role in a bigger way.
I am not on the planet at this time as you suspected. I came and went early on. I was birthed to a couple in California who had a stillborn child and then I came along. She was the light of their life. The loss of that child was devastating to her parents even if they never got to hold her beyond that beginning and that end.
There was something in their DNA that prevented children from being birthed. I came through to clear that for them. That was my purpose and my purpose only. I lived. I was young but then got hit by a car. I was never to come through again. This was my last lifetime as well as it will be yours. I came through to help open the way for the child that was meant to be for those parents. They now have a son who is a bright shining light in their lives. They cherish the day he was born and are grateful for every move that child makes.
During my young life, I got to open their hearts and help them heal. When my passing occurred, they were more ready to allow the separation to heal. They didn’t give up. My birth gave them a vision for the future to hope again to have a child of their own. They cleared something within their ancestral pattern that was haunting them and it had been cleared by my coming and going. The car accident was quick and painless. My soul left the body upon impact and I was once again taken home to Jesus, who greeted me with open arms upon my return. It was totally a selfless act that I came through. It was a gift to them in disguise. They received the gift and were able to move on.
That story was significant because they never gave up hope. They accepted God and what was God’s will. They were then able to go on and be happy.
When you accept God and God’s will in life, you can accept loss better as well as remain open to new gifts God has in store for you.
There is so much we don’t understand about life including why things turn out as they do, but our responses to the incidents in life make all the difference in the world.
I had never heard of the type of situation my father explained. When I look into the causal level of negative memories for my clients during our spiritual healing sessions, I often learn aspects of life that were unfamiliar to me prior. I recall a particular client who was abused as a child. We discovered that she chose to be born to a family with the goal of helping end an ancestral curse that caused abuse to occur down their lineage. We don’t always know what is going on behind the scenes on a causal, as well as, spiritual level. I’m always learning something new regarding life and it has helped me to accept life more as is and judge circumstances less. We can’t always see the big picture.
When life doesn’t meet our expectations, it doesn’t mean it is without purpose and a blessing. But, if we remain attached to the expectation and the disappointment of it not being met, we remain stuck and limited.
The lesson here, however, is to accept God’s will, life as is and to stay open. If you close your heart when circumstances such as these occur, it blocks receiving the possibilities available now, as well as, in the future, which may serve a higher purpose. Letting go isn’t always easy but without it, life becomes increasingly limited and blessings are blocked. We won’t know what God has in store for us if we limit him by staying closed living out of the past.